Weed (s)

The Red Dog

I am not sure why I bother to weed my garden beds because the weeds grow in much more quickly than I can pull them or kill them with Roundup.  I even have help of the canine variety.  The Red Dog loves only one thing more than the swimming pool, and that is helping in the garden.  He is the reason why my house is not and never will be clean (another of my opportunities to practice being Sisyphus).  He is also the reason why my white jeans are permanently stained with large paw marks.  I used to go right around the twist when The Red Dog "decorated" my clean white jeans but now, I no longer care.  The reason I no longer care is that I no longer go anywhere that requires my looking clean and put together, so when The Red Dog comes at me wearing his mud suit and boots, my cammo pants hide the evidence.

Sometimes I use weed-pulling as an excuse to avoid doing things I do not want to do, like cooking dinner, going to the grocery store, cleaning the house, or working in my office.  When Hubby comes home and there is no dinner on the table, I tell him I am saving us tons of money by doing manual labor rather than hiring someone (who really needs the money) and suggest that he get us a pizza from Enzo's.  When the overdue notices start showing up in the mailbox because I have been "too busy" to sit down and write checks, I hide them and then have to spend two solid days in purgatory (my office). It is a good thing that Hubby doesn't get involved with the household accounts otherwise I might have to get a "real" job.

Then there are those opportune times, during tropical storms and 100% humidity, when I voluntarily go to the office with every intention of paying the bills and filing everything away that needs filing and shredding everything else, but decide to check FaceBook instead.  This takes an inordinate amount of time (all wasted!) and makes me want to do some writing in order to get my focus back so I can attend to the high priority tasks languishing on my my desk.  The unfortunate thing about writing is that once I start, I can't do anything else until I am finished -- no matter how long it takes.  It is a little bit like weeding in that way, which leads me to wonder whether writing is a form of procrastination.  (Better not go there.)

As soon as the sun comes out, a whole new crop of weeds will spring forth and I will have to get back to my futile attempt to get my gardens in shape.  My Highly Effective Sister and her Mister do not seem to have these problems.  They keep their garden in shape, get their bills paid on time, host frequent dinner parties, own numerous rental properties, travel constantly (for fun), and hold down Important Jobs!  And they each have graduate degrees.  It's enough to make me want to get out of the gene pool, except it is too late:  Hubby and I have already reproduced, ensuring that the next generation of Highly Ineffective People, like weeds, will keep the entropy going.

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